Today on the podcast I’m sharing why making friends as you get older feels similar to dating, what me and Brian’s relationship was like at the beginning, and why marriage can be really damn hard sometimes.
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Loved this podcast today! So many things about you and Brian’s relationship resonated with me and my relationship…love to hear that I’m not alone and how you all are trying to work on it too. Thanks for sharing!
Absolutely loved this episode!! Thank you for talking about relationships and hard work and navigating different obstacles you and Brian have faced. Its true no relationship is truly easy and sometimes, when everything seems so perfect it makes me question if the relationship is really all that great. Sure, a few lucky people may have that, but most relationships require hard work. Thank you for showing us something beyond the highlight reel of your life and for being open and honest.
Also, as a non drinker, going to social situations where alcohol is the biggest thing is always an annoyance and it’s like, could we do something with out drinking?! Since you are being more curious about things I hope you are able to find a way to have fun in these situations without compromising yourself or your goals and sticking to your boundaries.
The episode did not end on a sad or dark note, it ended on a real note which was much appreciated. Again, thank you for always keeping it real and honest with us.
Thank you so much for this episode!! You were so open and it was so refreshing hearing about your experience with your relationship and marriage. You’re the best!! <3
thanks for listening, Natalie!
Juli, thank you so much for this podcast episode. It was really refreshing to hear about the reality of your relationship because it is so easy to assume that everything is easy and perfect… about anyone! I have been having a rough couple of weeks in my own relationship and your advice to not compare myself to anyone else and listen to what *I* want was just what I needed to hear this week. Thank you for sharing, you have really helped brighten up my outlook.
i wish social media shared the real side of relationships more, but i also understand people not wanting to air out their dirty laundry. but the comparison game with relationships is TOUGH. glad i could share a little more insight into the ups and downs that we all go through!
I’m listening to your podcast now and I think you’re the bees knees. I know you’ve done larger meetups like group trips and such – any plans on hosting local Denver meetups for women that would help to manifest these sorts of friendships / relationships you’re talking about? I know it’s tough w/ COVID but not sure if that’s been a thought. I have also struggled to make new friends in my late 20’s – I’m doing Bumble BFF but I also tend to feel weirdly clingy when I’m the one “pursuing” and doing all the planning, LOL.
at this point, no. but that definitely might change in the future once the world opens up a little more!
YAAAAS QUEEN! Great episode – I am always looking for deeper conversations with people and it can be really hard as an adult to find those meaningful friendships that aren’t so surface level. Loved the realness about how HARD relationships can be and we need to have more of these open discussions!
Wow, Juli! Thanks so much for sharing your struggles. I’ve been in a PhD program for the last 7 years and have had many friends graduate, get jobs and move away. Recently I was the one who moved away too (to be with my partner who got a job in another state) and it’s always hard to lose in-person friends. Developing and maintaining genuine adult friendships is HARD! Especially for people like me who are total nerds.
As others have said, I also really appreciate you talking openly about your relationship, the happy and the struggles, because I think it’s the reality for many who are in healthy relationships. Finding ways to have calm, productive conversations about how everyone can thrive is so important. The image of perfection that many paint of their lives on the internet can create this false, unachievable bar that people want but never seem to be able to accomplish. Sharing personal relationship stories can make people feel vulnerable, so thank you!
Absolutely loved listening to this!! Your words resonate with me, regarding friendships and intimate relationships. I feel a sense of relief honestly. You really hit home on some things girlfriend. Thank you for sharing!