Laura made me that mug. Rad huh? So rad.
I need to make something perfectly clear. I am not a nutritionist. I am not a doctor. And I am not a therapist.
I am a food blogger. A human, paleo food blogger. I put paleo friendly recipes on my blog, on a weekly basis, to help people create more exciting meals for themselves, their family, and their friends.
Not ever, EVER, have I told you to follow my blog, eat how I eat, or drink what I drink. I live my life, share it with the world, and that’s it.
I do the same on my other social media portals. Like Facebook, Twitter…when I tweet twice a year, and Instagram. But when people lash out at me for what I eat, because I’m not “supportive” to the paleo community, I get very frustrated. Once again, I am NOT your doctor, I am NOT your mother, and I am definitely NOT your therapist. I am not a person who tells you what you should put in your mouth or how you should exercise or how you should deal with your issues. Because, well, you are not me. And I am not you. Our bodies are made differently and our minds are programmed differently. So what I may be shoving in my mouth truly has nothing to do with you. Because I’m not shoving it down your throat.
“Dieting” or eating a certain way is very difficult for some people. I would know, I’ve been there. Transitioning to paleo was incredibly tough for me when I first did it. But as I’ve gone on, I’ve figured out that eating a certain way that someone else tells me to, rarely works. Example: nuts. Almond flour pancakes, almond butter cookies, or just snacking on nuts. None of that works for me. Doesn’t mean I hate those bloggers or friends that have told me to try those foods. It just means those foods aren’t the best choices for me. Because MY body does different things than THEIR bodies.
What I am is a person who lives an incredibly happy life, with delicious food that makes me feel good, without ever feeling guilty or deprived. I eat the food that I know won’t make me sick and pass on the foods that I know will. I drink, I eat, I laugh, I workout, then I eat again. I don’t expect anyone to live a life like me, especially eat like me, but that’s exactly why it is my life.
Paleo is a controversial subject. But it’s only controversial when we make it that way. For me, it’s no longer controversial. It’s no longer frustrating. And it’s no longer an agreement I must follow. It’s a guideline to creating a healthier life for myself. That life includes bloody marys, sweet potato fries, vodka sodas, pupusas, roasted brussels sprouts, steak, kombuchas, dark chocolate, arepas, coconut butter, oh and bacon. Are all those things paleo? No. That’s why I’m not making those recipes for my blog. But it doesn’t mean I’m not shoving them in my face.
So while you’re worrying about what is going in my gut, I’ll be out enjoying life. Paleo or not. I recommend you do the same.







***** Five stars Juli!
[APPLAUSE] These folks who insist on rigid Paleo rules are in it for reasons other than health. I’m 48 years old, I live in New Orleans, and as you can imagine, 100% Paleo is a near impossibility here (if you want to enjoy your food at all). 80/20 is fantastic and allows me to make intentional choices that are both healthy and enjoyable – but I don’t force that on anyone else. I read your blog because you’re irreverent, a great cook, and you give me new and creative food ideas. I enjoy following your journey – and that’s what it is for all of us. A journey. I feel sorry for haters – their focus is so much on others that they can’t enjoy their own ride through life.
People are idiots, straight up. You’re smart and talented (stuff idiots don’t like). Ignore the morons, and please keep keeping it real.
Your recipes rock btw. And I’m only slightly paleo, whatever the heck that means.
And that’s why I “follow” you and “share” you with everyone! You are creative, witty and a damn good cook! You advocate a healthy lifestyle and give others room to find their own groove. Bravo Juli!!
I love your sassiness! You are AWESOME!
Well said! That is why I read your blog. You say as it is — no sugar coding here. 🙂
As if I didn’t think you were awesome enough already – I love you and your blog even more for this. I feel exactly the same way!
Brava!
AWESOME post!! Not only because some people need to get real if they came to a blog for doctor or therapy advice. You have a great blog and am glad my friends pointed me to it. (Your blueberry muffin recipe is awesome by the way.) It’s nice to know that when I have something that’s not Paleo friendly I’m not the only one. Now I need you to do a workout motivation post. (I don’t do crossfit though.) Because my mojo left the building and I cannot find it anywhere. 🙂
Well said. Thanks again for sharing with us!