Laura made me that mug. Rad huh? So rad.

I need to make something perfectly clear. I am not a nutritionist. I am not a doctor. And I am not a therapist.

I am a food blogger. A human, paleo food blogger. I put paleo friendly recipes on my blog, on a weekly basis, to help people create more exciting meals for themselves, their family, and their friends.

Not ever, EVER, have I told you to follow my blog, eat how I eat, or drink what I drink. I live my life, share it with the world, and that’s it.

I do the same on my other social media portals. Like Facebook, Twitter…when I tweet twice a year, and Instagram. But when people lash out at me for what I eat, because I’m not “supportive” to the paleo community, I get very frustrated. Once again, I am NOT your doctor, I am NOT your mother, and I am definitely NOT your therapist. I am not a person who tells you what you should put in your mouth or how you should exercise or how you should deal with your issues. Because, well, you are not me. And I am not you. Our bodies are made differently and our minds are programmed differently. So what I may be shoving in my mouth truly has nothing to do with you. Because I’m not shoving it down your throat.

“Dieting” or eating a certain way is very difficult for some people. I would know, I’ve been there. Transitioning to paleo was incredibly tough for me when I first did it. But as I’ve gone on, I’ve figured out that eating a certain way that someone else tells me to, rarely works. Example: nuts. Almond flour pancakes, almond butter cookies, or just snacking on nuts. None of that works for me. Doesn’t mean I hate those bloggers or friends that have told me to try those foods. It just means those foods aren’t the best choices for me. Because MY body does different things than THEIR bodies.

What I am is a person who lives an incredibly happy life, with delicious food that makes me feel good, without ever feeling guilty or deprived. I eat the food that I know won’t make me sick and pass on the foods that I know will. I drink, I eat, I laugh, I workout, then I eat again. I don’t expect anyone to live a life like me, especially eat like me, but that’s exactly why it is my life.

Paleo is a controversial subject. But it’s only controversial when we make it that way. For me, it’s no longer controversial. It’s no longer frustrating. And it’s no longer an agreement I must follow. It’s a guideline to creating a healthier life for myself. That life includes bloody marys, sweet potato fries, vodka sodas, pupusas, roasted brussels sprouts, steak, kombuchas, dark chocolate, arepas, coconut butter, oh and bacon. Are all those things paleo? No. That’s why I’m not making those recipes for my blog. But it doesn’t mean I’m not shoving them in my face.

So while you’re worrying about what is going in my gut, I’ll be out enjoying life. Paleo or not. I recommend you do the same.

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304 Comments

  1. Art Aughey says:

    Word! Good for you Jules! BTW, skin looks awesome! 😉

  2. Kim says:

    Hells yeah, girl!

  3. Christy says:

    Sorry people can be so tough!! Just know that there are a bunch of us that really appreciate everything you do! I love your blog and your realness. Thanks for all the great recipes!

  4. Alisa says:

    Cheers to that!

  5. loralee says:

    I read this quote on facebook the other day. I love it and I can honestly say that your blog reminds me of it. Keep up the good work and keep sharing your kick ass recipes.

    “You only live once?
    False. You live everyday.
    You only die once.”

  6. Marjie Scheib says:

    Can I just say “ditto” to all the positive comments above-? Well just did! LOVED this post!!!!

  7. Dana k says:

    Thanks for being do real! There was a great article about the 5 types of Paleo eaters and one was the tight ass regimented Paleo eater and how much it sucks to know one of those people. So glad you’re not one of them!

  8. Brittany says:

    Everyone already beat me to saying it, but you are seriously amazing! People are wayyyy too involved in other people’s lives. You just keep rocking yours! 🙂

  9. Julia says:

    Keep it up. I am an omnivore, eat it all person. I love your recipes and i think you sound like you are really a happy and lively person. Thanks for sharing your stuff, sorry there are mean judgemental people out there!

  10. John Torres says:

    Great post! You just became my second favorite Paleo blogger!