Laura made me that mug. Rad huh? So rad.

I need to make something perfectly clear. I am not a nutritionist. I am not a doctor. And I am not a therapist.

I am a food blogger. A human, paleo food blogger. I put paleo friendly recipes on my blog, on a weekly basis, to help people create more exciting meals for themselves, their family, and their friends.

Not ever, EVER, have I told you to follow my blog, eat how I eat, or drink what I drink. I live my life, share it with the world, and that’s it.

I do the same on my other social media portals. Like Facebook, Twitter…when I tweet twice a year, and Instagram. But when people lash out at me for what I eat, because I’m not “supportive” to the paleo community, I get very frustrated. Once again, I am NOT your doctor, I am NOT your mother, and I am definitely NOT your therapist. I am not a person who tells you what you should put in your mouth or how you should exercise or how you should deal with your issues. Because, well, you are not me. And I am not you. Our bodies are made differently and our minds are programmed differently. So what I may be shoving in my mouth truly has nothing to do with you. Because I’m not shoving it down your throat.

“Dieting” or eating a certain way is very difficult for some people. I would know, I’ve been there. Transitioning to paleo was incredibly tough for me when I first did it. But as I’ve gone on, I’ve figured out that eating a certain way that someone else tells me to, rarely works. Example: nuts. Almond flour pancakes, almond butter cookies, or just snacking on nuts. None of that works for me. Doesn’t mean I hate those bloggers or friends that have told me to try those foods. It just means those foods aren’t the best choices for me. Because MY body does different things than THEIR bodies.

What I am is a person who lives an incredibly happy life, with delicious food that makes me feel good, without ever feeling guilty or deprived. I eat the food that I know won’t make me sick and pass on the foods that I know will. I drink, I eat, I laugh, I workout, then I eat again. I don’t expect anyone to live a life like me, especially eat like me, but that’s exactly why it is my life.

Paleo is a controversial subject. But it’s only controversial when we make it that way. For me, it’s no longer controversial. It’s no longer frustrating. And it’s no longer an agreement I must follow. It’s a guideline to creating a healthier life for myself. That life includes bloody marys, sweet potato fries, vodka sodas, pupusas, roasted brussels sprouts, steak, kombuchas, dark chocolate, arepas, coconut butter, oh and bacon. Are all those things paleo? No. That’s why I’m not making those recipes for my blog. But it doesn’t mean I’m not shoving them in my face.

So while you’re worrying about what is going in my gut, I’ll be out enjoying life. Paleo or not. I recommend you do the same.

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304 Comments

  1. Pat Baker says:

    Love Ya just the way you are! Don’t change a thing please!

  2. AnnaLee says:

    You hit the nail on the head!

  3. Megan says:

    Thank you for being you!! Love your blog and can’t wait for your book!!

  4. Megan says:

    Haters gonna hate. Don’t think about people who are doing absolutely nothing for you.

    You rock, and have made my, and countless other peoples lives more enjoyable, so thank you!!!!

  5. Jessie McLaughlin says:

    Love your blog!! DO NOT change a thing!! Happy Weekend to you!

  6. Shannon Hicks says:

    Well Said!!! I LOVE your blog, Juli! My husband and I started this journey with a 21 day sugar detox Jan.2, and then moved on to eating using Paleo guidelines as GUIDES, not RULES! Too many rules make me want to rebel, and feelings of guilt turn into feelings of failure, which would result in me going back to eating the way I used to eat. I refuse to let someone else rent space in my head and tell me how I must eat. I know I’m eating healthier than I’ve ever eaten–even with the occasional baked sweet potato fries or glass of wine. I also want to be able to enjoy dinner with friends and family without causing undo stress for them. Even if means eating something with grains/diary/sugar and feeling miserable the next day. I will make the best choices I can with what I have in front of me. My life is about more than what I eat. I am choosing to eat well to live long, and enjoy the journey!

  7. Deb Wilson says:

    Juli, I love your blog. I consider myself mostly paleo with a little bit of primal, Every once in awhile, I just have to have a little bit of dairy. However I stray a bit from time to time. It happens.

  8. Jessie says:

    Good for you! I think it’s good that you show a side of you that is human and real. I love eating Paleo but when I don’t I don’t want to feel guilty because of it. Thanks for helping me be ok with who I am too! xoxo

  9. Rachelle Hyde says:

    What about 80/20 it is what makes me eat healthy most days, helps my fibro and pcos, who cares what they say.

    I just think they are jealous of all the attention you get for just being an amaze-balls person…..

  10. Charlotte says:

    The cool thing is how well you express yourself even when you’re angry. And that you have the guts to do it. You’re not some anonymous internet presence, you’re very publicly out there, and you stick to your guns, something that a lot of us have difficulty doing. Well written, young lady.