Laura made me that mug. Rad huh? So rad.
I need to make something perfectly clear. I am not a nutritionist. I am not a doctor. And I am not a therapist.
I am a food blogger. A human, paleo food blogger. I put paleo friendly recipes on my blog, on a weekly basis, to help people create more exciting meals for themselves, their family, and their friends.
Not ever, EVER, have I told you to follow my blog, eat how I eat, or drink what I drink. I live my life, share it with the world, and that’s it.
I do the same on my other social media portals. Like Facebook, Twitter…when I tweet twice a year, and Instagram. But when people lash out at me for what I eat, because I’m not “supportive” to the paleo community, I get very frustrated. Once again, I am NOT your doctor, I am NOT your mother, and I am definitely NOT your therapist. I am not a person who tells you what you should put in your mouth or how you should exercise or how you should deal with your issues. Because, well, you are not me. And I am not you. Our bodies are made differently and our minds are programmed differently. So what I may be shoving in my mouth truly has nothing to do with you. Because I’m not shoving it down your throat.
“Dieting” or eating a certain way is very difficult for some people. I would know, I’ve been there. Transitioning to paleo was incredibly tough for me when I first did it. But as I’ve gone on, I’ve figured out that eating a certain way that someone else tells me to, rarely works. Example: nuts. Almond flour pancakes, almond butter cookies, or just snacking on nuts. None of that works for me. Doesn’t mean I hate those bloggers or friends that have told me to try those foods. It just means those foods aren’t the best choices for me. Because MY body does different things than THEIR bodies.
What I am is a person who lives an incredibly happy life, with delicious food that makes me feel good, without ever feeling guilty or deprived. I eat the food that I know won’t make me sick and pass on the foods that I know will. I drink, I eat, I laugh, I workout, then I eat again. I don’t expect anyone to live a life like me, especially eat like me, but that’s exactly why it is my life.
Paleo is a controversial subject. But it’s only controversial when we make it that way. For me, it’s no longer controversial. It’s no longer frustrating. And it’s no longer an agreement I must follow. It’s a guideline to creating a healthier life for myself. That life includes bloody marys, sweet potato fries, vodka sodas, pupusas, roasted brussels sprouts, steak, kombuchas, dark chocolate, arepas, coconut butter, oh and bacon. Are all those things paleo? No. That’s why I’m not making those recipes for my blog. But it doesn’t mean I’m not shoving them in my face.
So while you’re worrying about what is going in my gut, I’ll be out enjoying life. Paleo or not. I recommend you do the same.







I LOVE you for this!!! I can’t do true “Paleo” but my 80/20 works wonderfully for me and I love it. I think you are FABULOUS! Keep doing YOU lady! <3
Very well said! I try to stick to 80/20 paleo and I get so frustrated when I’m judged when I eat nonpaleo foods. Wanna know why I eat pancakes every now and then, because they’re effing delicious and I feel like cavemen would have liked them too. Long story short, I agree with you and maybe if we all stick together extremists (paleo extreme or and other) will learn to relax! You’re awesome!
‘I feel like a caveman would have liked them too.’ LOL!
Go Juli! I have been following your blog for a few months, and I have to say it is the most honest, funny and heartwarming blog I have come across. There is no agenda and just real life issues and joy. I think you´re inspiring and the fact that you don´t always eat strict Paleo is a relief. I just wanted you to know that there are so many out there who adore you. Warm hugs from Norway 🙂
You are definitely one of my favorite bloggers and one of the few I come back day after day to read what you wrote. I love that you are so honest about who you are!! It helps me a lot on my paleo journey. Thank you for being who you are and putting it out there on your blog!!!
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Keep doin’ your thing gorgeous, you are absolutely incredible! Ignore the trolls & keep on keepin’ on. Your blog is the only one where I read every post in its entirety. The recipes are great but your personality & sense of humor make your blog one of the best ever. Please know that you are truly appreciated!!
Juli, don’t pay any attention to that Instagram doucher. There’s a thousand people that love you for every hater out there. Brush that shit off and make me a bacon cookie recipe, woman!
Yes! What Clay said!
Makes me want to get on Instagram to see what they said, but then I get all spun up, and plus I am old and don’t know how to Instagram, and anyway, ain’t nobody got time for that! (yeah, I said it!)
Love how you are so real, Juli! Can’t wait to meet you at Paleofx in Austin next month.
Agreed. As a fellow “Paleo” blogger, don’t let the negative comments get to you. They are probably jealous of your hot bod and awesome blog. Forget about it chica and celebrate how many people you have helped in their transition into Paleo!!
^^ What Juli said.
Great post.
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