Laura made me that mug. Rad huh? So rad.
I need to make something perfectly clear. I am not a nutritionist. I am not a doctor. And I am not a therapist.
I am a food blogger. A human, paleo food blogger. I put paleo friendly recipes on my blog, on a weekly basis, to help people create more exciting meals for themselves, their family, and their friends.
Not ever, EVER, have I told you to follow my blog, eat how I eat, or drink what I drink. I live my life, share it with the world, and that’s it.
I do the same on my other social media portals. Like Facebook, Twitter…when I tweet twice a year, and Instagram. But when people lash out at me for what I eat, because I’m not “supportive” to the paleo community, I get very frustrated. Once again, I am NOT your doctor, I am NOT your mother, and I am definitely NOT your therapist. I am not a person who tells you what you should put in your mouth or how you should exercise or how you should deal with your issues. Because, well, you are not me. And I am not you. Our bodies are made differently and our minds are programmed differently. So what I may be shoving in my mouth truly has nothing to do with you. Because I’m not shoving it down your throat.
“Dieting” or eating a certain way is very difficult for some people. I would know, I’ve been there. Transitioning to paleo was incredibly tough for me when I first did it. But as I’ve gone on, I’ve figured out that eating a certain way that someone else tells me to, rarely works. Example: nuts. Almond flour pancakes, almond butter cookies, or just snacking on nuts. None of that works for me. Doesn’t mean I hate those bloggers or friends that have told me to try those foods. It just means those foods aren’t the best choices for me. Because MY body does different things than THEIR bodies.
What I am is a person who lives an incredibly happy life, with delicious food that makes me feel good, without ever feeling guilty or deprived. I eat the food that I know won’t make me sick and pass on the foods that I know will. I drink, I eat, I laugh, I workout, then I eat again. I don’t expect anyone to live a life like me, especially eat like me, but that’s exactly why it is my life.
Paleo is a controversial subject. But it’s only controversial when we make it that way. For me, it’s no longer controversial. It’s no longer frustrating. And it’s no longer an agreement I must follow. It’s a guideline to creating a healthier life for myself. That life includes bloody marys, sweet potato fries, vodka sodas, pupusas, roasted brussels sprouts, steak, kombuchas, dark chocolate, arepas, coconut butter, oh and bacon. Are all those things paleo? No. That’s why I’m not making those recipes for my blog. But it doesn’t mean I’m not shoving them in my face.
So while you’re worrying about what is going in my gut, I’ll be out enjoying life. Paleo or not. I recommend you do the same.







get it girl. people are crazy. paleo can and should mean different things to different people!!!
AWESOME POST!!!! Thanks Juli!!!!
amen… I can not tell you how great it is to see this post:)
Amen sister!
PREACH! You are so awesome and it’s frustrating that people feel the need to get all up in your biznass for being you. Like some have said above, I feel like I can’t even use the word “paleo” anymore because every time I touch some chocolate or go out for ice cream I get “OMG IS THAT PALEO???” ahh.
But I’m glad there’s someone like you who can make us feel “okay” for being human. And inspire us to make healthier choices for ourselves.
Good for you!! I love your blog for the very reason that you write about your real life and you share amazingly delicious recipes. I don’t know how you come up with so many but I really appreciate it.
You are spot on and I hope you don’t let close minded critical people like that guy slow you down or stop you from doing exactly what you are doing.
Thank you for being you!
thank you for summing up what i try to tell everyone who has a million things to say about my paleo way of life!!
“What I am is a person who lives an incredibly happy life, with delicious food that makes me feel good, without ever feeling guilty or deprived. I eat the food that I know won’t make me sick and pass on the foods that I know will. I drink, I eat, I laugh, I workout, then I eat again. I don’t expect anyone to live a life like me, especially eat like me, but that’s exactly why it is my life.”
Just love you and your real attitude towards food and life, keep up the great work because you have made a Paleo lifestyle easier for so many people!
Well said! Real food is real food….I’m not sure why folks have to fight over it or make it controversial. You inspire me to cook healthy food and make decisions that work for me. I can adjust any “paleo” recipe to fit that framework. Keep on keepin on. 🙂
love the mug!!! totally agree with this!! i hate when people find out i eat paleo, then get all weird around me when i eat. i don’t treat the situation weird, so why should they?