Laura made me that mug. Rad huh? So rad.
I need to make something perfectly clear. I am not a nutritionist. I am not a doctor. And I am not a therapist.
I am a food blogger. A human, paleo food blogger. I put paleo friendly recipes on my blog, on a weekly basis, to help people create more exciting meals for themselves, their family, and their friends.
Not ever, EVER, have I told you to follow my blog, eat how I eat, or drink what I drink. I live my life, share it with the world, and that’s it.
I do the same on my other social media portals. Like Facebook, Twitter…when I tweet twice a year, and Instagram. But when people lash out at me for what I eat, because I’m not “supportive” to the paleo community, I get very frustrated. Once again, I am NOT your doctor, I am NOT your mother, and I am definitely NOT your therapist. I am not a person who tells you what you should put in your mouth or how you should exercise or how you should deal with your issues. Because, well, you are not me. And I am not you. Our bodies are made differently and our minds are programmed differently. So what I may be shoving in my mouth truly has nothing to do with you. Because I’m not shoving it down your throat.
“Dieting” or eating a certain way is very difficult for some people. I would know, I’ve been there. Transitioning to paleo was incredibly tough for me when I first did it. But as I’ve gone on, I’ve figured out that eating a certain way that someone else tells me to, rarely works. Example: nuts. Almond flour pancakes, almond butter cookies, or just snacking on nuts. None of that works for me. Doesn’t mean I hate those bloggers or friends that have told me to try those foods. It just means those foods aren’t the best choices for me. Because MY body does different things than THEIR bodies.
What I am is a person who lives an incredibly happy life, with delicious food that makes me feel good, without ever feeling guilty or deprived. I eat the food that I know won’t make me sick and pass on the foods that I know will. I drink, I eat, I laugh, I workout, then I eat again. I don’t expect anyone to live a life like me, especially eat like me, but that’s exactly why it is my life.
Paleo is a controversial subject. But it’s only controversial when we make it that way. For me, it’s no longer controversial. It’s no longer frustrating. And it’s no longer an agreement I must follow. It’s a guideline to creating a healthier life for myself. That life includes bloody marys, sweet potato fries, vodka sodas, pupusas, roasted brussels sprouts, steak, kombuchas, dark chocolate, arepas, coconut butter, oh and bacon. Are all those things paleo? No. That’s why I’m not making those recipes for my blog. But it doesn’t mean I’m not shoving them in my face.
So while you’re worrying about what is going in my gut, I’ll be out enjoying life. Paleo or not. I recommend you do the same.







Boom! You’re awesome and REAL. Love that 🙂
I agree. “High Five” indeed.
Thanks for your blog and the great recipes you share. People are never happy and always looking to complain. I am sorry you have had to dal with that. Keep up the great work..
I thank YOU and so many other great clean/whole food/paleo/primal bloggers out there!! WIthout all of you I would be lost! You all offer so much to us, sharing recipe, great info and so much more for free!!! We are so lucky to have you!! Thank you for all you do and forget about the haters, the complainers, the UNrealists!! We all LOVE you!!! Have a GREAT day!!!
Amen Sister. Live your life and enjoy it in the process. I too have found that STRICT paleo, is just that, too strict for me. But I do what makes me feel good. Good’on’ya!
well said.
YES! You go girl! Thank you for blogging about this. This rant needed to happen!!
Thank you for all you do – you have made my transition to Paleo so much easier than I ever imagined. Your constant recipes and HILARIOUS commentary give me something to look forward to everyday.
Don’t let the Paleo Po Po get you down … they’re just bullies anyhow (and have nothing better to do with their time).
luv ya!
THIS is why I read your blog. There’s a very small percentage of people that can live by a diet 24/7. It’s refreshing to hear someone say they can’t and won’t live in a paleo world all the time. Good for you, Juli. Good for you.
You are the best…You are truthful…That is why I read you daily!
2 Thumbs WAY up. I feel the same way. If I dare eat a non paleo food I have EVERYONE up my a$$ making sure I know I’m not eating something paleo approved. I actually like to see that you will eat a burger on a bun or chips. It makes you human and that’s why your blog is my favorite. The annoying zealots need to chillax and mind their business.
YOU ROCK!