Laura made me that mug. Rad huh? So rad.
I need to make something perfectly clear. I am not a nutritionist. I am not a doctor. And I am not a therapist.
I am a food blogger. A human, paleo food blogger. I put paleo friendly recipes on my blog, on a weekly basis, to help people create more exciting meals for themselves, their family, and their friends.
Not ever, EVER, have I told you to follow my blog, eat how I eat, or drink what I drink. I live my life, share it with the world, and that’s it.
I do the same on my other social media portals. Like Facebook, Twitter…when I tweet twice a year, and Instagram. But when people lash out at me for what I eat, because I’m not “supportive” to the paleo community, I get very frustrated. Once again, I am NOT your doctor, I am NOT your mother, and I am definitely NOT your therapist. I am not a person who tells you what you should put in your mouth or how you should exercise or how you should deal with your issues. Because, well, you are not me. And I am not you. Our bodies are made differently and our minds are programmed differently. So what I may be shoving in my mouth truly has nothing to do with you. Because I’m not shoving it down your throat.
“Dieting” or eating a certain way is very difficult for some people. I would know, I’ve been there. Transitioning to paleo was incredibly tough for me when I first did it. But as I’ve gone on, I’ve figured out that eating a certain way that someone else tells me to, rarely works. Example: nuts. Almond flour pancakes, almond butter cookies, or just snacking on nuts. None of that works for me. Doesn’t mean I hate those bloggers or friends that have told me to try those foods. It just means those foods aren’t the best choices for me. Because MY body does different things than THEIR bodies.
What I am is a person who lives an incredibly happy life, with delicious food that makes me feel good, without ever feeling guilty or deprived. I eat the food that I know won’t make me sick and pass on the foods that I know will. I drink, I eat, I laugh, I workout, then I eat again. I don’t expect anyone to live a life like me, especially eat like me, but that’s exactly why it is my life.
Paleo is a controversial subject. But it’s only controversial when we make it that way. For me, it’s no longer controversial. It’s no longer frustrating. And it’s no longer an agreement I must follow. It’s a guideline to creating a healthier life for myself. That life includes bloody marys, sweet potato fries, vodka sodas, pupusas, roasted brussels sprouts, steak, kombuchas, dark chocolate, arepas, coconut butter, oh and bacon. Are all those things paleo? No. That’s why I’m not making those recipes for my blog. But it doesn’t mean I’m not shoving them in my face.
So while you’re worrying about what is going in my gut, I’ll be out enjoying life. Paleo or not. I recommend you do the same.







I’m so glad you had dark chocolate on that list.
Lazy Paleo confession of the day – earlier today I had a chocolate, chocolate chip muffin from Sprouts covered in almond butter with my morning coffee. EEEKKKK! My coffee also had cream in it! DOUBLE EEEKKKK!
Happy Friday!
Haters gonna hate – you just go on being your bad self! And remember – your blog has helped so many of us who are trying to transition to paleo. I think that says it all, right there.
“Paleo is a controversial subject. But it’s only controversial when we make it that way.”
Abso-fricken-lutely!!!
Seriously applauding you for this!! I’m a Paleo food blogger too and feel the same way. You speak for so many of us with this post! Your food is incredible, you encourage thousands daily and you are real. Keep it up!
When to we get to buy more colors of the PaleOMG tank tops??? I NEEEEED one!!! ASAP!
http://www.fuelfriendsblog.com/2008/01/01/did-someone-get-told/
Haters gonna hate, do you 🙂
P.S. people are idiots
Well said. I’m of the thought that everyone has their own version of “paleo” and I think that’s perfect. Eat what you like, eat what makes you feel good and keep posting your recipes. I’m off to make your brownies this minute!
I agree with you! It’s a life style that each person who chooses to has to adapt individually based on their needs, goals and what their body tells them. So what if we have “cheats,” or as I like to say “enjoy,” other foods, its a choice we each have to make ourselves. Really if you think historically we all have been making choices for ourselves since we were little toddlers more so on a micro level but still its making a choice.
amen sister!
Let the hater’s hate! Your success speaks for itself! And all of us (your die hard followers) just adore you! Thanks for all you do, you really are an inspiration 🙂