This time next week, I’ll be soaking up some sun on the beach, sipping on a cocktail and getting butterflies thinking about getting married the very next day! How amazing is that? It’s officially the count down to our Jamaica destination wedding and I could not be more excited! I haven’t been able to really get excited with our sewer line collapsing then our refrigerator breaking down, all while we had already hired landscapers to tear out the bushes in our backyard and put up a new fence. Just a lot happening leading up to our wedding so my mind has been in other places. But now it’s go time! I’ve bought makeup, jewelry, some headpieces, outfits, and everything I can think of for our special day/week. Holy balls, it’s going to be so awesome!
The other night, we decided to go on a double date with some of our friends that are in our wedding party. I was craving a cocktail and sushi and I instantly thought about if I should actually have it since the wedding day is so close. Watching so many people get married and so many shows about weddings and dress fittings, crash dieting is always in the back of my mind, even though I haven’t done that in years. Seeing so many women starve themselves or limit their eating before their wedding has actually instilled that thought in my own mind. But for the past 6+ years, that’s exactly what I’ve been trying to remove from my brain. I don’t tell myself I can’t have something, I don’t restrict what I can have, and I don’t push away the hunger cues when they strike. I eat when I’m hungry, I eat what I’m craving, and I take care of both my body and my mind. That includes working out 5-6 times per week for more than 7 years. That includes eating healthy 80-90% of the time (no sh*t food ever), not binging and listening to when my body is full. Because of this, because of paleo and CrossFit, I’m not worried about my weight on my wedding day. I’m not worried about crash dieting so I can fit into my wedding dress or wear a bikini 7 days in a row. I’m just not worried about it.
My point is, the longer you keep up with healthy habits, even if it feels like it’s not working at the time, the more results you’ll see and the less you’ll have to worry about the one special event coming up. You’ll figure out your body more, figure out what it needs and doesn’t need. And you’ll slowly figure out that overall health means no crash dieting, no starving, no binging, no worries, just excitement for whatever big event you have going on. Because you have continued to work hard for years (not just months or weeks), you won’t have to stress about the details in between. If you want freedom from those feelings and those worries, you have to continue work at it. So right now, if you’re feeling like the results aren’t happening as quickly as you’d like and you’re feeling like doing some sort of “cleanse” just knock it off instead. Keep up with eating healthy, working out regularly, limiting sugar and alcohol and drinking lots of water. Take care of yourself and it will take care of you, too.
Sunday – Rest day
Monday –
5 x 5 overhead squats – I got to 120#
Then 12 minutes of:
Minute 1: 18/15 GHD sit ups
Minute 2: 45 second free standing handstand hold
The EMOM for 20 minutes:
Minute 1: 15/12 calorie air dyne
Minute 2: 60 double unders
Minute 3: 16/14 calorie row
Minute 4: 200m run
I couldn’t finish the 5th set in the time frame allowed. F*ck that workout was hard.
Tuesday –
4 Rounds Moving With Purpose ( 18 mins)
5 x Weighted Pull Ups (adding weight as you go) – I just did bodyweight
10 x Negative Push Ups, at deficit ( 3 sec down – 3 sec pause – 1 sec up = 7 sec per rep!!!) – I didn’t do deficit
20 x Double KB Front Rack Lunges (2 x 55 / 2 x 35) – MUST GO UNBROKEN!!!
Then 10 min Partner AMRAP Of:
Partner 1: 7 Squat Cleans (225/155)
Partner 2: Max Row or Bike (calories)
*Both people working, one at each movement. Swap after each athlete finishes the 7 heavy squat cleans.
**Score is total Calories after 10 mins.
Wednesday –
EMOM x 9: 2 x Split Jerks. All sets between 70 & 80%. From Floor. – I got to 120#
At 0:00 – 3 Rounds For Time Of: 70 Double Unders and 30 Wall Ball – I finished in 5:18 rx
@ 9:00 (workout capped at 18:00) – 3 Rounds For Time Of: 25 Cal Row and 15 Burpees Over Rower – I finished in 8:30 rx
Thursday – Rest day
Friday –
5 x 3 Power Snatch. Touch n Go. Adding. (12 mins) – I got to 105#
Then 16min AMRAP Of:
400m Run
6 Muscle Ups / 8 Burpee Pull Ups – I did 4 muscle ups every time
15 OH Squats (115/75) – I used 65#
I got 3 rounds + 400m run + 3 muscle ups
Saturday –
800m run – 20 hang squat cleans (185/125) – 40 kettlebell swings (70/55)
800m run – 15 hang squat cleans – 30 kettlebell swings
800m run – 10 hang squat cleans – 20 kettlebell swings
I finished in 24:10 using 85# and 45#
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At Home or Hotel Gym Workout:
800m run – 10 dumbbell hammer curls – 10 dumbbell tricep kickbacks – 10 dumbbell shoulder press
10 burpees
600m run – 12 dumbbell hammer curls – 12 dumbbell tricep kickbacks – 12 dumbbell shoulder press
10 burpees
400m run – 14 dumbbell hammer curls – 14 dumbbell tricep kickbacks – 14 dumbbell shoulder press
10 burpees
200m run – 16 dumbbell hammer curls – 16 dumbbell tricep kickbacks – 16 dumbbell shoulder press
10 burpees
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What I Ate in a Day:
7:30am – light pre workout snack of sheep’s milk yogurt
10:30am – post workout protein shake (1 banana, almond milk, cold brew coffee, ice, chocolate protein powder, and almond butter)
12:00pm – made recipe for the blog then ate 2 bowls full of green shrimp coconut curry
2:30pm – 1 power ball blueberry coconut ball
5:30pm – small handful of Jackson’s coconut oil corn tortilla chips
7:00pm – 1 blood orange vodka cocktail and sh*t ton of sushi – rolls and nigiri + 2 la croix (pure flavored) – This sushi is not the sh*t ton of sushi, there were many more containers. Izakaya Den is just the best!













When is your beautiful shrimp curry going to be posted on the blog??
in the next couple weeks!
Thanks for all the helpful tips! I eat mainly paleo and I feel the same way about sticking to healthy habits. I have two children and this really motivates me to buy food that will ultimately nourish our bodies. I have been looking into different routines and I am so glad you post workouts. I have a gym at work and I will definitely be following your routines. Enjoy your wedding Jamaica is absolutely AMAZING I went there on my honeymoon. Bring money for tips because they expect it for everything there…wish someone told me before I went;).
Juli – SO glad you wrote this blog. I got in absurd shape for my wedding in June (lost 30lb, 10% body fat, etc) by working out like crazy and really restricting my food. It has been hard, physically, but more mentally/emotionally, to figure out what a healthy normal looks like. You da best, girl.
I really appreciated this post this morning. I got up early and got all ready for a run which I was extra excited about ‘cuz I just got a new pair of shoes (they feel so good when they are new!), and then it sucked once I was out there. Not the shoes, but I felt tired and clumsy, and I had to keep stopping to stretch out my right hamstring from a nagging chronic pain issue that has been bugging me for weeks now. Anyway, I ended up feeling like a big, fat cow rather than a sleek racehorse. You reminded me that everyday is not going to be a great day, but as long as I keep at it and make it a habit, it pays off in the long “run.” Plus, at 52, I can focus on being grateful that I am healthy enough to work out the way I do and that a lot of folks my age are not doing as well as I am.
Melanie, I have those days too when running 🙂 Running is tough! (and I’ve run two marathons in my life). I can mountain bike for hours and feel great but after 40 minutes of running I feel wrecked. Kudos to you for getting out there!
Your eyeliner earlier this week was insane. Can you do a Snapchat tutorial? Pretty please…
oh lord, i’m not very good when it comes to my eye liner, it must have just been a good day lol or good side! here’s a little tutorial from someone else but there are all kinds on youtube! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qKy43F42NwQ
In your opinion, when living a lifestyle as mentioned above, is it important to be aware of calories/macros towards the beginning as far as body composition goes? And if not, why not?
Love your blog!
that’s really hard to say since everyone’s genetics and bodies are completely different. i don’t think macros or calories need to be counted or monitored when eating clean, but i do think it’s important for people to understand the difference between satisfied and full. too many of us (me being one of them before) are used to overeating and have a hard time knowing how much to eat. that being said, macros can be helpful with showing people if they need to be eating more or less. hope that helps!
Thanks for the reminder- definitely needed to hear it. I’m 42 days to my wedding and even though my brain knows to avoid the crash diet, it’s still such a popular thing to do as a bride, that I must confess to being a little tempted. One thing that always motivates me to NOT do that is to realize how hard I’ve had to work for the muscle that I’ve gained and that fat that I’ve lost over the last year or so. That didn’t happen with a crash diet; it took a lot of time and dedication. I don’t want to undo that and I never want to be in a place again where I’m afraid of food or of stepping on the scale. Thanks for being so inspirational! Love following you!
i feel the same way! so all you have to do is keep up with the hard work, eating well, working out, reducing stress and you’ll be able to stay away from that place!!
Your wedding day will be our 5th anniversary! You picked a great day to get married 🙂 Cheers in advance to April 16th!
Hi Juli-
I have been following the Paleo lifestyle for a couple of months now and I love it! I have your cookbook and love every recipe I’ve made so far! I am training for a half marathon right now, but once that’s over with I’d like to start lifting again. What protein powder do you recommend for those who follow a Paleo diet?
i use formulx, progenex or mark scission’s primal fuel
Where do you get those Powerballs?
http://paleoangel.com